What if I told you, I too was like this once? (Before my iPad became laggy on PG3D)
There have been times in the past when I wanted to simply take a break from the killing, and unwind/chat/explore a map on a server. Fortunately I've been to some servers where there was no killing, other times there was a killer (or I ended up being one), and it went to become full-blown chaos.
Anyways, I see where you're coming from, but it is more inescapable these days than it was before, to avoid a killer on a no-kill map.
To the remainder reading this: No, I never have been, nor will be, a dater on PG3D. I did occasionally hangout on servers just to talk to people, host skin contests, etc. The roleplay stuff I never really got into.